I’m patient but yet left wondering when will you come. I watch friends get engaged or friends find love but yet my heart remains empty. Although I find love in Christ, I dream of having a mate. I want a companion, a motivator, a soul mate. I pray I talk to God but yet Love is still at a standstill. Have I ran across my mate? Maybe the time wasn’t right or maybe he’s just unprepared. I know you feel the same as me you’re wondering where is the man who’ll save my heart that’s been bruised by men of no meaning. I want to encourage you to not lose the hope, one day this will all be a memory.

I’ve learned to embrace my singleness and build my faith in God. God wants my heart before I give it to anyone else. He’s the header he’s the King, the only way this man will be able to find you is strictly through God. While you wait talk to God, prepare yourself for this man in the meantime. Be sure of the things you ask for in a mate you can also provide. Don’t settle for anything that brings harm to your spirit. Love brings peace, so if it pains you, Let It Go!

The longer you wait the more you value self, the more you learn yourself. Some of us hold on to past insecurities that we block love when it arrives. I think God wants us to fully focus on him and get things in order before we receive what’s in store. Sometimes I watch people around me find love soon as they get out of a relationship and then there’s me, like God I’m ready but God still blocks because he knows deep down we’re no where near prepared. Here’s my prayer for you, may we continue to seek his will and never lose faith in what’s to come.

God I thank you for giving me understanding into your word. God keep me on the path you’ve called me to walk on. Forgive me for the things you may not agree of and make my heart to be more worthy of your love. God when I don’t receive the things I expect help me to see it’s all of your plan, it’s your protection that blocks the things I once desired. God give me direction and guide me through the unseen. I pray for my mate Lord may our hearts find favor in one another. As long as it takes I’ll wait on you, i trust your plan for my life Lord. I honor you in Jesus name. Amen!

Love will come, don’t settle for anything that doesn’t feel of God. Remember love is peace not pain.

You doubt yourself, you worry why and how. You no longer put up the fight somehow you tend to let Satan get the best of you. You let disappointments win you over, you see no way on how you’ll make it through. I get it I have been there.

Today I’m here to tell you that YOU HAVE POTENTIAL! In life I find that all we need is encouragement, we need uplifting, we need reassurance. As I read (Proverbs 3:26) it indicates “the Lord is our security (our protector) he will keep our foot from being caught in a trap.” This scripture gives us the answer we need to move further in life.

Our biggest fear is going forward being afraid we will get stuck but here it tells us as bright as day he will protect us and keep us from being jammed. There is no reason to hesitate or doubt anything in life with God on our side paving the sidewalk smooth to keep us from stumbling.

Do not hold yourself back from doing what God has called you to do because of self doubt. As soon as you step out God will pull things out of you that you had no idea you were capable of doing.

This is a woman of gratitude, no where laziness transpired. She did not procrastinate neither did she give in. The Proverbs woman is a fearfully made woman. So ask yourself what are the similarities? How does this woman differ from who I am? Am I the procrastinator or the go-getter I know I’m capable of being? My advice to you is to not hold yourself back any longer from accomplishing what is meant for you in life. Do not be afraid to believe in yourself and step out into new beginnings. Let God reveal your true identity & live in that moment. You have potential to be who you want to be. It starts with you! You are powerful and created for a divine purpose.

We all want things when we want them but few are willing to wait. What are the odds of receiving things when we planned versus receiving when God planned? Quite frankly that’s how it goes. Maybe it’s financially you’re overwhelmed praying for a breakthrough or maybe it’s life in general whereas your bad days outweigh the good. Sometimes God takes us through hardship to get us prepared for his greatness. Don’t question why you’re going through life ups and downs instead stand firm and fight your way through.

As I was headed home I always take time and talk to God so this specific conversation was basically on waiting for my spouse and being clear on the things I ask of God in my significant other. I compared waiting as it is to baking a cake.

You have certain ingredients you use to make this cake vice versa the things we ask of God in our mate. What made me compare the two was the waiting process on how we sit but not rush the timing. We do other things in the mean time to keep us occupied while we wait.

We wait patiently throughout the baking process for the cake to rise which is liquid then it rises to this cake texture same as it is to waiting while you’re single being alone to yourself and then you’re blessed with what you waited for.

I think we should learn to be more patient look at it as if we take the cake out to early it’s not done same as if we rush God for love and we have someone come into our life and we’re not as ready as we think we are at the moment which makes us reject. 

I feel as if when love happens it’ll happen when the time is right just make sure to not want the process to be of faster speed because you’ll end up receiving something/mate that’s not ready!

Clearly we all have a purpose rather you have discovered your calling we are all here for a specific reason. While going through my transition in life I found myself losing people close to me and it affected me in every way. I had people talking down on me I went through a stage I was so discouraged I dropped my pen gave up writing for a minute I nearly let someone stuck all the energy inside of me I was weak felt like I was battling demons but later I realized it was all a TEST.

At this point in my life I’m so grateful to be surrounded by the ones who encourage me even when I slip I’m back realigned and that’s what life is about having someone there you can rely on not being around jealousy but of love . Moral of the story no matter how hard life gets you can’t get through it alone, make sure the people you surround yourself with are people of encouragement & people of understanding.

At this point in my life I’m so grateful to be surrounded by the ones who encourage me even when I slip I’m back realigned and that’s what life is about having someone there you can rely on not being around jealousy but of love . Moral of the story no matter how hard life gets you can’t get through it alone, make sure the people you surround yourself with are people of encouragement & people of understanding.

Understanding that life battles are hard and at times we come across the bumps. Often times I think we’re afraid to drive over instead we detour not knowing what’s ahead. I’m a firm believer in keep pushing keep continuing don’t be afraid to leap over because greater is ahead. Moral of the story no matter how hard life gets no matter how tough times get no matter what you’re facing keep pushing but understand that in any given moment your life can be changed. You have to KNOW that this isn’t the life God has planned and believe he’ll take you higher. The pain you may be facing won’t compare to the joy that’ll be replacing.