Overcoming The Past

Ever felt as if no one understands you? No one takes time to listen? No one takes time to know you? What about when they speak you listen, when you speak they ignore! You feel a void, you become empty.

I’ve encountered moments where I wanted to speak but my voice goes unheard or even when I speak, my point of view draws confusion. There are times when I want to give my two cents but afraid I’d add more fuel to the fire so instantly I’m left holding in my words to explain.

No one hears you, your voice is silence to their ears. I’m trying to explain but yet my side goes unnoticed. I guess the best thing to do is find someone who hears me out. Next thing I know is this person gives me comfort and I’m able to confide in them so now the feeling reverts on you.

If you’re in a relationship listen to that person hear them out. I believe the #1 failure in relationships is lack of communication. When one person is not able to express their self with their partner they go out and find someone who will.

Now here I started out as being rejected due to lack of communication, now I have someone who listens while I have you home. This makes me wrong to confide in someone else but with you I’m always rejected.

“A relationship cannot improve if you don’t provide your partner with a safe and open space to express their needs and concerns.
If you continue to perceive your partner communicating as an attack, you’re never going to get anywhere.
Humble yourself and listen to their needs.”

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You can’t expect to grow together if you’re not listening to one another. Listening is one way of showing respect within your relationship.

The whole time you’re planning to give in, God is about to take a step in and turn things around for the good.

The key to it all is patience & once you master that you’ll be able to adapt to certain changes.

Keep on going as if nothing has happened. I solely believe he will pull you through.

This is the month of November, with the end of the year approaching there are some ways we can change if we want to align positively. I always find that we tend to always say Yes to please others but I’m learning that you must make you happy firstly. Below are some things I find it’s okay to say No to. Remember God has not given you breath to satisfy others!!

• Say No to negative thoughts
• Say No to draining people
• Say No to overspending
• Say No to past failures
• Say No to procrastination
• Say No to bad habits
• Say No to doing things that does not align you
• Say No to people who always expect you to provide/spend
• Say No to that relationship that causes you pain

Just some things in my opinion we should say No to. You are not a bad person for wanting to be the best version of you. It’s okay to say No, you’re human.

“Obviously, I’m not trying to win the approval of people, but of God. If pleasing people were my goal, I would not be Christ’s servant.”
‭‭Galatians‬ ‭1‬:‭10‬ ‭

Here’s to a new month, new beginning, and fresh start.

May this month bring answered prayers and an abundance of life.

May any doubt or confusion be replaced by restored hope and faith.

May all your needs be met, according to Philippians 4:19 God will supply all.

May this month bring healthy relationships and friendships.

This is a season of transition, manifestation, and prosperity.

May good things come your way.

O stands for overflow ✨

Enjoying life and making the best of it & feeling as if everything is going great. I have great family, a hand full of friends, new job, seems as if I’m finally receiving my moment. It’s so great to loud clap for others but I’ve learned when it’s your time, the applaud is soft.

I often wondered why is life this way, why can’t I receive the same outcome and have those moments returned the same way I gave. I found out in life people will slowly fade away and place the blame on you. I thought this was bad I always found fault in me but often times I when the numbers get low they were just meant to go.

God’s rejection is protection ✨

I found this video to expand my horizon a bit. I found great revelation in it being okay to allow the dead weight to drop. As I think of myself as a butterfly spreading its wing, it was brought to my mind that if I continue to allow toxicity into my life my wings wouldn’t be healthy enough to soar.

You could be close to someone one day and the next day you have no idea who that person is. It could be family, relationships, friendships, or etc but if that certain individual or those people aren’t meant to go on that path with you God will certainly remove them.

I do not want you to be angry at self, or at life but be thankful instead. When people begin to isolate, elevation is on the horizon.

The truth is, some people are just seasonal.

God, thank you for giving me your

word. I am so grateful that I can rely

on it whenever I need help or

guidance. As I continue to draw near

to you please revive my soul and fill

me with your joy, peace, and comfort.

Make me wise, and help me to trust in

you. Keep me safe and protect me

from the plots and schemes the

enemy may try to throw my way. I

give you honor and praise the rest of

my days. In Jesus name, Amen ✨❤️.

“But forget all that— it is nothing

compared to what I am going to do.

For I am about to do something new.

See, I have already begun! Do you not

see it? I will make a pathway through

the wilderness. I will create rivers

in the dry wasteland.”
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•You matter.

•You’re important.

•Don’t rush go at your own pace.

•Love others.

•Be your authentic self.

•Things will get better.

•Let go if it pains you.

Believe in yourself.

•Don’t worry about what others think of you.

•Read second note.

•You were created with a purpose.

•What’s for you is for you!

•Speak life into yourself.

•Love with a healed heart.

•Never judge others.

Your failure does not define you. It’s proof that you’re human.

•Read the first note.

•I know times get hard, remain faithful. He’s testing you.

•Embrace who you are.

•Forgive to be forgiven.

•You deserve to rest and prioritize yourself.

•You will achieve any goals you have set, if you apply yourself.

You will win 🏆