It’s Okay To Love Again

As a single woman after 9 years I’m learning that it’s okay to love again. I believe the concept of learning someone and being accepted takes a toll on us.

We begin to be nervous and wonder with so much of the what ifs that we don’t ideally focus on what’s already given.

I once sat and cried my eyes out looking at the girls receive flowers, the dates, the healthy looking relationships and I wonder why I never had anyone to make me feel whole again.

Before you allow anyone to love you, you must first love yourself ❤️

I can assure you when love comes around it’ll be unexpected. It’s just going to happen and when it enters you’ll know it within. (Discernment)

As I embrace this new journey of love I’m able to be free and realize why it never worked with anyone from the past and I must say I’m happy to have let go of hinderance to make room and allow what was for me to surface.

I never sat and accepted love I was always cautious but this time I’m able to sit and embrace my feminine side.

When a man leads properly, a woman submits naturally..

After years and years of praying and being patient God has finally answered me and I couldn’t be more happy to have the man he has placed in my life.

I admit I was afraid and this guard of mine was tense but having a partner that reassures you and communicates with you helps to ease the tenseness.

I guess what I’m saying ladies is having a “Real”man is top notch ..

What’s a more greater feeling than being valued? Accepted? Loved? It’s so hard to come by and often times I find myself in a daze wondering is this really me.

I know what I deserved and I know what I asked of God but what makes this whole situation better is not only God gave me what I asked for but he gave me beyond my request.

So don’t feel as if it won’t happen or your prayers are going unheard. At the right time God will give you the desires of your heart but know that what he has is greater.

The longer the wait the bigger the blessing ..

When love comes and revisit you I pray it’s safe, calm, and compassionate. May this man be everything you’ve imagined him to be. I pray you’re able to accept him and let go of past trauma.

You are worthy of love ❤️ be open. It’s okay to love again.